We’ve secretly replaced their regular Bête Noire. Let’s see if they notice!

When I was in college in Florida, a thousand miles from home, my mother would call regularly. We would chat: I’d tell her some – certainly not all! – of the things going on at school, and she would relate the contents of the A&P sales flyer for that week. At some point in the conversation, she would put my father on the phone. Here’s how the dialogue usually went:

  • Me: “Hi, Papa, how are you?”
  • Father: “Good, good. How are you?”
  • Me: “Fine. School’s good.”
  • Father: “How’s the car?”
  • Me: “The car’s fine. The odometer went this week, so that leaves no working gauges on the dash, but it runs and I keep a gas can in the trunk.”
  • Father: “Good, good. Are you changing the oil?”
  • Me: “Yes, yes. The oil’s fine.”
  • Father: “How’s the clutch?”
  • Me: “Still working. Mostly.”
  • Father: “Good, good. Are you happy?”
  • Me: “Yeah, yeah. Things are good. School’s good. I’m happy.”
  • Father: “Okay. Here’s your mother.”

Yesterday was Father’s Day, and I think of what gift my own father might have liked to receive. Then I remember these conversations from my college days and I know that the only things my father cared about were that his children had good working cars and that they were happy.


Today is also the two-year anniversary of my blog. Writing it has made me very happy. Just writing at all makes me happy. I know my father would have liked to hear that. So, to honor him today, I am posting two things: a picture of my car, and evidence that I’m happy, which is the post that marked my debut into the blogging world, two years ago today.


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